Hi,

Ths is a sensitive question and as I currently don't live or work in Hickory Hills anymore.I previously thought that I could push this to the back of my mind, but now I'm not sure I can. I happen to know, that there is a high probability, that a high ranking member of the Fire dept. I used to work at, maybe having an affair with his secretary. I have no actaul evidence of this, as such, just stories that I heard suspicious situations I walked in on.But I feel sorry for his wife and feel like I must do something about it.Unfortunately telling her without the evidence to back it up, might not be a wise thing to do. Does anyone have any suggestions? It'll continue to plague me unless I do something.
Thanks

It may be a little late now... but i dont think you can say anything to his wife without having any proof. Yocausing more harm than good in the situation. You should confront the man first before you do anything. If you already made the decision, how did you end up handling it?